Thursday, March 22, 2012

March 22, 2012

Yesterday we went to a local bazaar. It's actually the arts and crafts village called Shilparamam
Claudia found a purse she loved :)

















I found some nice scarfs :) Claudia took a picture of me with the sales guy


























Tomorrow is Ugadi festival (the start of the lunar calendar in our state Andhra Pradesh) and Mikey had to wear his formal outfit to school today. Claudia took a picture of him with our maid Laxmi















Today we were driving around with Robert and found some neat villages. Claudia took a picture of one of the houses. They put Mango leaves over the door to celebrate the new year and Ugadi festival.
Here is what Claudia wrote:
This morning Rob took us through a small, out of the way village before going to his job (their driver meets us there and then uses the car) and we saw women washing clothes while beating them against rocks in front of their small dwellings. We also saw wild pigs and many more buffalo (weird looking cows with huge horns) out in the street. Cars and motorcycles just go around them.
I love the picture claudia took of a family on a moped!!!!





March 22, 2012

The first few days with Jules and Claudia were fun. They had to get used to the time difference and they were somewhat overwhelmed with the different culture!!!
They keep saying, you can't describe what it's like here and I totally agree!!!

I love what Poppy says: "every mile is an opportunity for a million pictures, and even then you couldn't describe India; it is a country of unbelievable extremes"

Here are some things Claudia wrote in her e-mails to her family and friends:

Nati loves it here. She has a cleaning lady come in for a half hour every morning, never has to do dishes, has their own personal driver at their disposal during the week (rob drives the car on weekends) and has all the amenities of the apartment complex which we are enjoying so much. Love tennis and the indoor and outdoor pool. Nice size gym, too. The apartment complex is only about a year old so it's not fully rented out yet.
Can you imagine cooking and not having to clean up? It's the best!!! I do feel guilty sometimes.

Their apartment building opens up to acres and acres of wilderness and open land with huge rock formations and we can see it all from their balcony on the 9th floor where we can watch goats with their shepherd and also cows grazing and even saw a peacock a couple days ago. Nati had never seen one here before.

This is the adventure of my lifetime! And I'm not sure if it's mainly because we are living with locals or that it's the most different culture I've ever been apart of. It's true that every time we go out with their driver (weekdays while rob is working) we see new things even on the same streets. Rob does fantastic at driving in this crazy traffic, too. And Nati knows all the neat places to take us. We do try different restaurants and a couple days ago ate Chinese for lunch that was outstanding. Rob got home late last night and brought home some Chicken Tandoori which was fabulous. Everything is an adventure here:) Kelli was so envious that we were having naan bread at the cafe by the pool the other night. And it's so cheap!

Can't put into words how wonderful it is to be here with everyone and witness this different culture. Never thought I'd get to India. I think every day what a great opportunity this is. Venkat did a u-turn yesterday so we could take pictures of two oxen with a huge load of dried hay down the main street. Other days we've seen the buffalo or bull cows charging out into the busy streets. Drivers here don't have road rage because they know that if you don't claim your spot on the road, that someone else will take it. If you pass on the left or right (they drive on the left) you sound the horn when passing because everyone is darting all over the place (no lanes) and the driver is only responsible for the FRONT of the car. When you're behind someone you know you are responsible for not hitting them but they can move into you and that's okay. So if the lead car is darting then the cars behind will follow. You really have to be on your toes. AND remember that most cars don't have brake lights, front lights or turn signals. Another thing hard to describe:)

When I got out of the car to take a picture of a temple yesterday, some guy took pictures of me. Nati says she has had that happen a lot. People aren't used to seeing the white skin and blonde hair.


Here are some pictures Claudia took:
* A guy cutting coconuts at the side of the street
* Nathali and Venkat drinking coconut water
* A Picture at the temple Claudia took
* A statue of Ghandi at the assembly of Hyderabad
* The picture of an Ox Cart with Hay claudia took
* Claudia took a picture of the hardware store I buy things
* She also had to take a picture of the chicken center near our house
* I love the hut with the blue door near our house. It's amazing to see how people live in huts and tents
* Claudia loves her Chinese Fast Food, situated next to our complex
* There was a tent next to our complex where they sold Ayurvedic medicine and I just thought this sign was so funny!!!!!
























































March 22, 2012

On March 15, Jules (Poppy) and our good friend Claudia started their trip to India!!! They got here on March 17 and we have had so much fun ever since they got here!!! We weren't sure Poppy would come, since his twin brother Lionel had to have emergency surgery on his foot. Luckily everything went well and he is recuperating now!
Here are some pictures

* Jules and Lionel
* Pre-boarding for Hyderabad
* Poppy in business class
* Poppy and Mikey in the play area at the Westin hotel where we had lunch
* Poppy, Mikey, Rob and Claudia took a tuktuk (or auto rickshaw) ride into town




























































































Monday, March 12, 2012

March 12, 2012

So between the daily power outages, the terrible reception of cable and the fact that all kid's shows (incl Disney and Nickelodeon) are all dubbed into either Hindi or Telugu, Mikey manages to use my iPad or laptop to watch videos on you tube or iTunes all the time. By the time I get it back, the battery is dead! I have to check my Facebook on my iPhone, which by the way I had to buy here in India and apple has managed to keep prices pretty much the same here as in the US (not cheap!) Rob wasn't happy when I dropped my iPhone 3G (luckily not my 4S, because they can't jailbreak it yet) into the toilet! Another "lucky" coincidence was that I dropped it in a toilet at an upscale restaurant, because I tell you, some of these toilets are pretty disgusting!
No wonder all the guys take a leak at the side of the road! You cannot drive for more than 2 minutes without seeing someone peeing at the side of the road. My favorite spot is when they do it right under a sign that says 'keep your city clean' So odd! I have even seen two (adult!) guys take a dump in the fields behind our house! I kid you not! Mind you that we live on the 9th floor and they probably had no idea that anyone was watching. I don't know if you've ever seen the scene in the movie 'outsourced' where they describe the use of the left hand for wiping the behind, so you are only supposed to use your right hand to eat. Especially since most people don't use forks or other silverware. I've seen now in person that they really use their left hand!! I now also understand why everyone wears sandals. It must be because of the wet toilets (I still haven't figured out how the women in the sarees do it, but one of these days I will. It's not really a topic you can discuss with just anyone :)
A few weeks ago, Rob dropped Mikey off at school and mikey had to go nr 2, but he was complaining that the toilet was too high, so the teacher said: it's okay, he can go on the floor, the maid will clean it up!!! I really hope that is NOT what they are teaching him!

Hyderabad is considered pretty conservative, most women wear traditional clothing (like sarees and kurtis) They look so beautiful in amazing colors! You also don't see much PDA especially between man and women. Sometimes between men, but it seems totally socially accepted here that man hold hands :)
I still love the cows roaming around the streets and traffic just goes around them. The dogs, kids, goats, and even pigs seem very street smart, you seldom see them jump into the street. There is an endless sound of blowing horns, people won't drive here in a vehicle that has no horn. I love how Steve describes traffic here: it's like a school of fish. If something gets in the way everybody moves around it pretty smoothly. I haven't seen much road rage yet. I think it's because it's so unclear what the rules of the road are that you can't really yell at someone else for doing something 'wrong'.

Last night after dinner we tried to find our way back to the hotel to bring Steve and Arlo back. Rob started driving and after a while we figured out we weren't getting anywhere familiar. So Steve pulled out the GPS. He's showing Arlo were we are and where we have to go on the map. 'Oh says Arlo, that looks good, the only problem is I see no roads on the map!' Everyone is laughing but little did we know that he turned out pretty right!!! We ended up taking a lot of left turns. We ended up in an abandoned train station, being chased by wild dogs, trying to find a way out to the other side of the tracks (not even knowing if that was the right side of the tracks. Rob decided to take a left onto this dirt road where we are driving in the middle of nowhere it seems with the tracks on one side and a huge pipeline on the other side, with more scary dogs barking at us. We end up in this tiny (Muslim) town and somehow Rob finds a tunnel that goes under the tracks! Then we end up in another (again seemingly Muslim) area of town where the roads are extremely narrow, almost everything's closed (it's already 11pm) and I'm thinking we will never find our way home! Steve seemed very optimistic the entire time navigating us on a street less GPS map and somehow we ended up back into civilization! It was quite an experience (one I don't really want to repeat). I have to say though that I did not feel scared or threatened at any moment, except for maybe the dogs. We all agreed that if this had happened in downtown Miami, we most likely would not have made it out in one piece!! I love Hyderabad :)


This week was Holi, the festival of colors. People put paint on each other and spray each other with colored water. It looks like a lot of FUN, but Mikey didn't care much for it. Here are some pictures of Mikey and his class mates. Also there are some pictures of our water court where people decided to wash off. The water ended up being so red :)
















March 12, 2012


I promised more pictures, so here they are!!

Mikey had a fun birthday and LOVES his new car that he drives around our community all the time :)























Venkat (our driver) was going to cook for us, a real Indian meal. So you go to a chicken center and have them slaughter a chicken right in front of you! You can see the life chickens in the cage on the left.






















Venkat was showing Mikey how to make Indian food :)























I can't believe I saw a camel in the street!!!























You think there are enough people in this '4-in-all'?!






















This is amazing to me: a hut where people live, and they have a dish!!!
















Women working (they carry heavy buckets of cement on their heads!)






















The sunrise from my balcony






















March 11, 2012

Here are some pics I had not put on the blog yet.

A few weeks ago we were invited to Shiva's (Rob's office manager) niece's wedding. Weddings are a huge event here and they take forever. We got to the wedding hall at 11.00 at night and had some (spicy!) dinner. Then everyone was waiting until 3.34am for the actual ceremony. Unfortunately Rob and Steve had started working at 5am that morning and were too tired to wait.

















The brides have beautiful Henna tattoos

















Shiva and his wife and sister

















Rob's colleague got married last week and we went to the reception
We got to put rice on their head for good luck :)




















The national pride: a cow with a swastika. It's so weird to see swastikas everywhere, but the symbol has been around for centuries and here in India it means good luck. Not sure if I'll ever get used to it, without having a bad taste in my mouth! I prefer the national bird of India: the peacock....























I had to take a picture of the swastika on our front door too!!!

















After the movers had put our furniture together, they just left the garbage outside our door. In the morning it was all gone. I love having maids on a daily basis :)

















Venkat and Mikey were helping me do grocery shopping

















The super market at Aparna Sarovar. It's small, but it has everything we need. The ladies in front of the supermarket are sorting the potatoes

















Our suitcases at the hotel, it still cracks me up
Mikey and Rob getting ready for an outing